However, it can still be nerve-wracking sometimes. Lindsay van Clief.
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The trick to asking a guy out is just to do it. Confidence is key because it is sexy, compelling and begs them to want more.
You need to own that you desire to date this person, get excited about it and just do it. It helps to also not make a huge deal of asking. If you are really leading up to something huge or have some big unveiling plans the other person often understandings something is going on.
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This changes the dynamics and the expectation of the whole question. You are just so sweet to me.
I would love to take this to the next level and see you more. Care to go on a date in the future?
The last point to consider is your reaction. Try to hold your emotions in a bit when asking a guy out. Of course, you are allowed to be excited for disappointed but the big dramatic explosion of emotion might not be taken the right way. I tend to go for guys with a bit of humor so I tend to ask them out as a punch line to a joke. For example, this last guy that I asked out I met on a boat.
When we got to where we were going for the day we split up, he went to the bar to get drinks and a snack and I went to the beach for a swim. When I went to the bar he was sending some fried back to the kitchen and I asked if I could have them. Skip forward a few days and I went out again.
When I saw the same guy out at the bar I was in the Bahamas and there are only so many places to go out on an island I walked up to him and asked if he wanted to buy me some food and I promised I would share. He said yes, but instead, there was another mix-up and I ended up buying the food and eating it all because, well, I bought the food and I was hungry. Later that night we ended up sitting next to each other and talking.
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I got to know him more and we realized that there was really a spark. Then I finally got up the nerve to ask him if he really wanted to go out to dinner and that if he said yes, I promised not to take any of his food. In short, I feel like asking a guy out is the same as what I want when I get asked out.
I want to know that there is a connection and not just a physical attraction, I want to feel special, and I want there to be some humor. For what it is worth, that guy and I are now dating and happily moving to Costa Rica in April. If you are truly terrified of rejection, you can get the guy to warm up by asking him on a group date. Paulette Sherman. Surveys show most men are flattered when a woman expresses interest or asks them out. Founder, Hope Boulevard.
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I am in favor a few written messages and at least one phone call before agreeing to meet, but if the connection seems spot on and you want to go for it, my suggestion is a meet and greet in a public setting. Regardless of how well you get along online until you are sitting across from someone you have no way to know if there is true chemistry.
Many things are hidden in online profiles, and you do not want to lock yourself into a full-fledged date until that first meeting is under your belt. There is nothing taboo at all about mentioning that you would like to meet for coffee or something similar either right after work or early afternoon on a Sunday for example.
There is little pressure and if any true interest exists, he will take you up on your offer. If you are wanting to ask out a guy you know through friends, the neighborhood, church, etc. Guys are fairly transparent when they like someone, even if they are shy about doing the asking.
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Your odds are much better if there has been some subtle flirting already on display. Again, though, I would make the offer for something simple. Walk in the park. Early dinner.
I would still make it a public place even if you know them. It is also my personal opinion that if a girl asks a guy out, she should be prepared to pay her way.
Most guys the really good ones will not accept it, but it is fair and shows you have put thought into it. These are my tips for asking a guy out. There are many different scenarios and almost impossible to address each one. The key is to keep it low profile and in public for the first date.
And if a guy says no one time, do not keep going back to ask. If he is uncomfortable with you asking, he will come around and ask you at a later time. Relationship Expert at Grapevine Gossip. Asking a guy out can be intimidating.
Many women wonder how to ask a guy out, or if they even should. There are many different approaches you can take to asking a guy out.
You can take the initiative and just go for it. Plan a way to ask the guy whom you like out. Even though there are supposedly unwritten rules about asking a guy out, rules are only made to be broken.
Do not follow the crowd, go get what you want. Carmen Jacob. Hope Suis Founder, Hope Boulevard. How useful was this post?
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